Day 23 - LORD JESUS, HEAL MY FAMILY

When we spend significant time, whether physically or mentally, away from our home, we begin

to build walls around us. These walls often lead to emotional wounds for ourselves and our

loved ones—especially our spouse and children.

Sometimes, we may be physically present but mentally distant, immersed in our thoughts. This

often happens when we dwell on the past or carry hidden wounds we don’t even realize exist.

I used to react angrily whenever my children misbehaved or did something I didn’t like. My

responses were often aggressive, leaving scars on their hearts.

It wasn’t until recently that I understood the root of my anger. As a little girl, I was punished

harshly by my aunt. Every time she struck me with a belt, her anger transferred to me, leaving

deep wounds in my soul. While Jesus has set me free, those scars remained for years.

Anger is just one example. Many other destructive behaviors—physical abuse, alcoholism,

addictions, or poor financial decisions—can create similar damage. These issues need healing

in our own hearts if we are to bring healing to our families and relationships.

In Christ, we are a new creation! He is already at work, healing our past. Our next step is to

embrace this truth:

“Therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and dearly loved, put on compassion, kindness,

humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another if

anyone has a grievance against another. Just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you are also to

forgive. Above all, put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity.” (Colossians 3:12–14)

An important resolution for this year, my dear brothers and sisters, is to heal our hearts and

relationships. When we do this, we create space for Jesus to reign as King in our hearts.

God’s love never gives up on us. Never lose faith, for His love can do everything. If you feel

your love has run out or is at its end, run to the arms of Jesus, the ultimate source of love.

“Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we

do not give up.” (Galatians 6:9)

Let us take practical steps to rebuild broken or damaged relationships.

Jesus taught us this:

“Therefore, whatever you want others to do for you, do also the same for them, for this is

the Law and the Prophets.” (Matthew 7:12)

Here are five actions to help rebuild relationships:

1. I respect you: Even if I feel hurt or frustrated, I will not harm you. Before God, I

commit to being respectful. If the situation is overwhelming, I will pause, breathe deeply, and

pray, “Holy Spirit, help me.”

2. I look into your eyes: When relationships are broken, silence often takes over,

followed by cold or minimal words. Looking into someone’s eyes opens the door to reconnecting

hearts.

3. I’m listening: To truly listen, I need to be quiet. If I don’t understand, I will ask

the Holy Spirit to guide me and translate what my heart cannot comprehend.

4. Please forgive me, and I forgive you: Humility is key. Asking for forgiveness

from our children doesn’t diminish our authority; it strengthens it. Forgiving others who have hurt

us, including our children, is essential. Forgiveness must be accompanied by actions that reflect

it.

5. I’m learning: Healing is a process. When challenges resurface, I will remember

that we are learning and growing. Jesus said, “I am lowly and humble in heart.” Stopping to

think before reacting is crucial. Jesus is always there, helping us.

Heavenly Father,

Today, I come to You with a heart in need of healing. There are so many wounds that only You

can mend. Resentment, anger, and the desire to fight have taken root in me. I long for a sweet

and healthy family, but I struggle to see what You are trying to show me.

Please cleanse my eyes so I can see my spouse, children, and those around me as You see

them. Teach me to love as You love. Forgive me for my shortcomings.

Take away my anger, hatred, and desire for revenge. Replace them with Your peace and

mercy. Clothe me in compassion, humility, and kindness. Help me seek You as my first source

of love, peace, and reconciliation.

Holy Spirit, be my guide and translator. Help me understand what is happening in my marriage

and family. Heal my heart, my perspective, and my relationships. Restore the love and peace I

have lost.

Today, I surrender my anger, resentment, and bitterness. I ask You to restore my heart and my

home. Raise the banner of peace over my family. Thank You for being the God who rebuilds

ruins and restores broken hearts. In Jesus’ name, Amen.